WELKAOS: We welcome chaos with calm compassion.

March 14, 2008

Electing Compassion While Fighting for Justice


My life situations and identities – most of them afford me power and privilege, increasing my sense of agency, or self-efficacy, and also my perceived moral integrity or moral superiority. So I have to be honest and critical and humble with myself, when I say such things as: “In any situation or experience there is an element of choice”. This implies that freedom is available at all times.

Obviously I am inclined to feel more sense of freedom and choice in my situations, because of all of the seemingly-good fortune I have been given. But, as the wise one, Dr. Cornel West said, ‘The most respectable and valuable and honorable position is that of the marginalized, oppressed, and silenced people who choose to have mercy, compassion, and love through all hardships, despite feeling isolated, undervalued, and under-respected.’ (Powerful Dr. West videos: Success vs. Greatness or @ Brown University)

These models of our time show love, value and respect to others, including those both currently committing and those capable of various forms of oppression.

Oppression, based on perceived superiority = Aggression.
Aggression dehumanizes both others and the self.
Aggression increases the violence in our world.
To refrain from increasing aggression is revolutionary.

This type of aggression is learned somehow. It is counterproductive to believe that humans are born with so much hate based on arbitrary social constructs and categories such as race, class, gender, ability, sexuality, etc. As children we learn it, as empowered, critical thinking adults we can begin to unlearn the prejudice set deep in the crevices of our brains. We can unlearn the hate that darkens our vision.

Why not head off the problem where it starts, in the “education” or “miseducation” of children? It seems all children are capable, indeed, of thriving in any culture, thriving in any language environment, especially multilingual environments. As a language educator, I want to help young people maintain their natural curiosities about the world. I want to facilitate the use of all of their inborn capacities for language learning, for respect, for compassion and empathy, before the current hegemony of our world ingrains itself too deep into the minds of our future and current young leaders. (See Manufacturing Consent, by Noam Chomsky)

In this world, dominated by so many unaccountable leaders and obfuscated beauracracies, it is easy to feel powerless. The systems of control and the institutions of our world that maintain the status quo so effectively seem so permanent and impenetrable, yet we need not give up or give in. If anything, we live in the generation of change. If anything, it is our responsibility to get the ‘social justice ball’ rolling for the next generation. With enough inertia, multiple universal and personal revolutions will surely ensue. The biggest challenge is building inertia.

If we don’t start to stand up for humankind and justice and equality right now, we risk losing our freedoms and our sense of agency in the world. The first step is to keep learning; we must educate ourselves to become more passionate and get fired up. The second step is to share our passions, and to care more and more about the state of the world. Finally, community-building and activism begin, with constant reflection and commitment to our values of course.

We must swear to fight injustice, no matter who it is directed at. We all need allies and we all need supportive communities; no man is an island. But what can we change as pacifists, you may ask? To be compassionate and merciful is not to act as a door mat and get kicked around. We can both reduce aggression and maintain our own human rights and human dignities simultaneously. With our non-violent and enlightened activism, we will model to others, and especially to young people, how to create positive, lasting change.

The young have great potential and energy, and many forms of passion, many ways of being exceptional. In valuing the exceptionalities of all young people, in learning to value all ways of being, we model to them how to be good role models and accountable leaders. We are all leaders and we are all educators just as soon as we realize it.

Education, compassion, and accountable leadership are all vocations, callings that we can choose to take on for our entire lives. This is what all of us should strive for if we want to create change. We must be the change we wish to see in the world.

I have heard it said that only when the love of power is overtaken by the power of love will we all be free, but even with the injustice and the severely restricted freedom that we may now be experiencing, we always seem to have the choice to show compassion, mercy, and love.

Let’s empower each other to struggle with love. Let’s empower the youth. Let’s get the ball rolling, sustainability, compassionately, and courageously!


March 13, 2008

What Exactly Are You Running From, My Friend?

Filed under: Spiritual Philosophy — by 84adam @ 3:24 am
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Death in every moment, death in every out-breath.
Emotionally, physically, and spiritually, death = change, loss, and pain.
Death of any kind we run from, as we are programmed to run from every moment.

Why not reprogram ourselves?
The present moment is the most wisdom-filled and fulfilling moment there is.
Why rob ourselves of the ultimate wisdom right under our nose?
Courage means moving into fear in order to grow; without growth we stagnate.
No pain, no gain, and we move into our fear of that pain.
Growth = wisdom and increasing compassion, decreased aggression and reduced suffering.
The bigger we grow, the more love flows out from us to lighten the burdens of others.

Growth is a gift we give to ourselves.
Growth becomes a gift we give to each other – if only we choose to grow, by moving into the difficulties that arise.

Now we choose now, the present moment, the only real moment available to us.
This moment is welcome, this moment is a gift – we just have to stick around to benefit from it.

Showing love to the moment, we show love to ourselves and each other, simultaneously affirming all beings by affirming one moment.
To say “this moment is welcome” is to affirm all.
To welcome this moment is to welcome everything.

Infinite space is available in this death of every moment, this constant flux.
Hence, while sticking with the moment, or getting stuck to it, we find there is such spaciousness in every dying moment.

To tap into this spaciousness is to access universal wisdom and compassion, wisdom and compassion that fill everything, but that our fear of death obscures.
We fear death, because we fail to recognize the potential of the moment.

This moment is wisdom, this moment is love, this moment is death.
If we run from this moment, we run from death.
When we run from death, we run from love as well, adding instead aggression that comes from grasping to things outside of the moment (the idealized past and the fantasized future).

Embrace love, death, and wisdom.
Embrace the moment.
Say: “This moment is welcome.”

February 25, 2008

Our Meditation Prayer

Filed under: Spiritual Philosophy — by 84adam @ 9:47 pm
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We are motivated to meditate and pray so that all beings may be free from suffering.

May we understand with our hearts that:

What we do to each other, we do to ourselves.
The dichotomy of Self and Other is an illusion.
We all benefit greatly when suffering is reduced.
When we see everything as impermanent, our attachment and aversion are reduced.
Attachment and aversion cause us great suffering.

May we all rid ourselves of attachment and aversion and be free from suffering. May we do this…

By constantly increasing our compassion and love for each other,
By choosing not to cause harm to ourselves, nor add aggression to the universe,
And by choosing to meditate and contemplate ourselves and this prayer.

We are motivated to meditate and pray so that all beings may be free from suffering.

This Dream Is Welcome. (Spoken Word)

Filed under: Spiritual Philosophy — by 84adam @ 7:32 pm
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Right now I am feeling fear, anxiety, excitement, pride, and joy.
I welcome these feelings, because they all have something to teach me about myself.
I acknowledge them as I move forward.

I am moving with hope, wisdom, and love into fear and into death.
This dream is welcome.
In my dreams I maintain my values and my moral integrity.
I see it in what I do with my body and my words while dreaming.
This is a dream. And I do not want suffering to be a part of it.
So I am reducing the suffering either real or perceived in the dream.

Perception is reality, no?
I change my reality by changing my perceptions.
In whatever state of consciousness I find myself, compassion is the vocation.

Compassion (for self and for others) is one choice.
Agression is the only alternative. I see this in terms of attachment to the ego.
Agression is attachment to the ego. Agression leads to suffering.

In every moment, dreaming or waking, I choose either to add aggression to the universe in a never ending cycle, or to add compassion as we all return to love.

This dream is welcome.
I walk through these dreams with humility.
Humility is so powerful.
Because in recognizing that every being has something to teach me, every being becomes valuable and allows me to grow.
For that I can welcome any being graciously, gratefully, and humbly.

I gain power and I am empowered by increasing my humility, compassion, and moral integrity.
I gain power from this wisdom, but without my humility, compassion, and morality, this wisdom can turn into ego-reinforcement.

It can turn into supremacy and perceived superiority based on my different identities – moving me in the direction of white supremacy, male supremacy, straight supremacy, able-bodied supremacy, middle/upper-class supremacy, and other forms of perceived superiority.

All of these are forms of oppression to others.
And if I oppress others, I also dehumanize and demoralize and numb myself.
If I value every being for what and who they are in the moment of our encounter,
I feel I can reduce my own oppresiveness.
I am reducing my own sense of superiority in order to add more love to the universe.

This dream is welcome.
Moving forward with compassion in every step, remaining open to the wisdom that every moment presents me, I am empowered to become the kind of moral, political, educational, and accountable leader that I want to be.
In this way I feel empowered to become a leader that fosters leadership, compassion, and moral integrity in others.
In this way I commit myself to the constant, compassionate, and dynamic education of myself and others.

This challenging, exciting, scary and hopeful dream is very welcome.
This dream is welcome.

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